CAN I BE CALLED BEAUTIFUL?

 When someone asks me what is Beauty? I am never able to  answer this question. I always get confused asking myself which beauty are they talking about? Because I was been told beauty is a soul that lightens the most ugliest .  On other side I came to know beauty is a pretty face and a pretty body. But when I ask myself what is beauty? I feel BEAUTY is a combination of qualities that delight the senses and a spiritual soul .Beauty is love for all. Dedication,motivation,courage and smartness with a heart which is always ready to help. Once there was a man who was never rich enough to get a luxurious life. He lived in a small house but he actually had a big heart which is more beautiful than a big house. Isnt it?
He used to wake up 1 hour before going for his work to help the poor old lady collecting those pretty flowers for selling those to get some money. He used to give his piece of bread to the hungry dog who always used to sit next to him . He never asked for many things and settled up for pretty things which were way more beautiful than those gadgets,video games etc. At the end of the day, he used to get some money for working at a place. He used to see a girl sitting on the side of the road - A girl who had big dreams but without any money for good clothes to go to a school. He always used to give some money to her. After some months he saw that girl coming running to him wearing the school uniform having tears in her eyes rolling down to her mouth. she was so happy. Isnt it beautiful? People like him still exist.
Have you ever helped anyone? No we never do so? If we cant be good at  heart? Can we be called Beautiful? I think this guy was way more beautiful than those wealthy people who say bad things about those poors, who kick those poor people out of their home?
BEAUTY is, A good soul who never mean to hurt anyone, Soul which never thinks bad about others. we all are beautiful but we hide our true beauty. Let this beauty come out so that we can make this world beautiful with the most beautiful hearts and souls. Because having a pretty face doesnt makes us beautiful. Good character,helping heart,respecting personality with good manners- makes us beautiful.
SO ARE WE BEAUTIFUL?
 IF WE ARE NOT.
LETS BE BEAUTIFUL

The mask we wear

   Do you know people become the way you want them to seem like? You know people have some intentions for being who they let you think they are?
     We live in a world where everyone wants to be appreciated and accepted. For being accepted we start showing the other version of ourselves hiding our true identity. Its kind strange that even the people love those  unreal and false people? Like icebergs,people normally expose only the small part of themselves and generally just the part they wish to show.

Nowadays,people who tries to tell the truth about you for your betterment are always killed for helping you and named as"HARSH AND RUDE"  but we must keep these kind of people who speak the truth close to us rather than befriending them. have you ever seen a Bee?  Bee carries that sweet honey in her mouth but  stings from back. That's the truth about people nowadays. We are so influenced by animals and insects, that we have started  behaving like them. The sweetest ,the one's who appreciate you all the time even if you are on wrong path are not your friends. They are the 'FOES', 'The enemies acting like your friends.'

BEWARE OF THESE KIND OF PEOPLE. They will take your places and make you fall down.
We all wear so many masks, one after other. We become so attached to others so easily that even after their truth comes out we still cant believe it, and at last we start blaming ourselves. And we should. We should surely take care of what we share with others.
 Try to be yourself,leaving those fake people at your back. If you want people to love you for who you are ,take the mask off. The mask the people wear are  actually the opposite of the personality they're trying to hide.
I want to encourage you people to pay attention to this topic which is always left behind because of issues like rapes,harrasements, kidnapping and many others but do you know most of the time this is the root of these evils in our society. I hope there are people in your life who dont wear masks, or dont wear them often. Hangout with these "if you see a man of prudence,seek him out,let your feet wear away his footsteps." Hanging out  with wise people will make you wise. Pray God to give you courage to be yourself.
You're not suppose to stand in the crowd, shine alone and let the crowd come to you.
TRY TO BE THE GAME CHANGER
THE WORLD IS ALREADY FUL OF PLAYERS.

Living dazzling

Your well being matters

Did anyone ever told you that you’re a revolution? That you are the answer to many of those questions you’ve been asking? That you are what you’ve been seeking?

Did you know that how you interact in the world around you makes a difference?

It’s true. You matter. You’re one of billions of people creating the world we live in, every, single day.

And because of this undeniable fact, you are immeasurably powerful. Oh, and your well being? Well, that matters – it really, really matters.

Nothing is more critical than the way we are within ourselves, because nothing affects our world more than the way we come to the table: how we interact, how we come alive or choose to dull our shine.

There are more than seven billion people on this planet. Can you imagine that? Seven billion bodies, personalities, and spirits walking around this earth, interacting, moving, gliding through personal dramas and triumphs, grief and great joy – and no one, not a single one of them is just like you.

Once you know this uniqueness, this rarity of who you are, how could you not want to cultivate, grow, and experience the entirety of who you are and reflect that back out into the world? The truest, fullest expression of you?

Looking to the outside world or external things to make you happy is kind of like depending on the weather. You could dress for a sunny day and get pummeled by the rain. But if you build yourself up from the inside out, whether by taking a break when you have too much on your plate or eating healthy food and getting fresh air and movement, you will feel different and be much more prepared for the storms of life.

As we perfect the latest technology and track ourselves like science experiments with calorie counters and mirrors that almost never reflect back to us what we see in the media, we must ask ourselves if the answer is much, much simpler. When you’re tired, take a break. No one is going to penalize you for lying face down on the couch for 15 minutes, or sneaking in a 10 minute walk around the block, filling your lungs with fresh air and feeling the warmth of the sun.

The answers to resetting and rebalancing are all around us. And they often don’t cost a thing. When your computer is acting up or your TV’s not working, what do you do? You shut it down for a few minutes. You give it a rest. So why would you not do the same for yourself? Doing is not always the answer. But being . . . practicing just breathing and being can change your entire perspective and the course of your day.

It’s not about being perfect; it’s about being well. That could mean a green smoothie for breakfast and a delicious steak and wine at dinner. It’s about moderation, balance, and knowing what’s right for you.

Whether you’re religious or an atheist, if you know in your heart that there’s something more to this life than skin and bones, then you know there’s something living and breathing inside you, the temple well of your body, that expresses itself to the outside world all the time.

A funny thing happens when you honor that place inside you, that uniqueness that only you hold and can offer the world – you go from just surviving to thriving. And it doesn’t have to be this perfect kind of life. Because the big secret is – there is no such thing as perfect.

The idea is to be proactive with your health and well being not reactive. If stress accounts for such a large percentage of illness, it means you can actively prevent, reduce and manage it. You can shape and nourish your overall health with decisions you make at any given moment of any given day.It means that if your physical health goes, you can continue to build up your mental, emotional and spiritual strength with positive results for your physical body. And vice versa. Science has proven that these elements of your body, of your well being are all interrelated.

And the magical part? The really, really cool part? Somehow when you do what lights up your being, what truly makes you smile, no matter how small, this thriving  not only helps you to survive what life throws at you . . . but it also helps you to actually come alive.

It’s vital for this world that you come alive because you are the only one of your kind.

Living bright means to shine from the inside out. To live from a place deep inside you that honors your true spirit and authentic self.

It’s filling yourself up so you can better give to others.

I truly believe that taking care of yourself mentally, physically and spiritually is a revolutionary act. Gandhi knew this when he said, “Be the change you wish to see in the world”.

The more we take full ownership and responsibility for our well being and happiness the more we reflect that well being, love, compassion, and kindness out into the world.

Everything you need is already inside you, you just need to shine some light on it, live well, and do what you can right now to let your best and most authentic self out into the world.

Let your life be your message.

Do not let a moment go by that doesn’t remind you that your heart, it beats 900 times every single day and that there are enough gallons of blood to make every one of you oceans.” — Anja Mojgani

Living Bright is inspiration to see life a little bit differently. Whether it’s finding out why yoga isn’t just for hippies or exploring the benefits of chocolate cake and music therapy. Being healthy doesn’t have to be boring and fitness doesn’t require a gym membership.

The untold stories

Whenever something shity happens,we keep it inside us. It's true there is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside.
 The whole day we howl like the life is full of joys but the time we are all alone, all the laughs changes into lament.
 Bearing so much of pain,we shatter in pieces,keeping the stories untold . Thinking about the family, friends we ditch our own feelings. All say, we dont care...
But we do. We pay attention to each and everything happening to us. Its just that we dont react to it. We cry, we stay mum and thn we Regret....
We regret the things we did showing others how strong we're makes us more fragile but we still do it so no one can judge us for being feeble.
They call us obsessed, they call us wicked but the truth is deep inside it hurts and we cry
We cry for trusting those morons who betrayed us. Isn't it interesting that we keep so much inside us without letting anyone know about it?
Yes we're emotional, we wry. But it's better than  being harsh on others. Isn't it? Those  late nights when we sit outside or in our window,recalling all the stuff.
Isn't it crazy that we are so strong at heart we bear so much pain both physically and mentally still ironically called fragile .
 Those fake smiles and counterfeit laughters would never let anyone know the truth behind them but yes we're strong...we are..!!
Everyone has an untold story hidden behind closed doors, try to understand that people are not always the same as they seem to be..

OUR SOCIETY

Men should realize and truly believe that women are as talented as men. Our society should not discriminate against women. Our society should respect women choices-in what they wear,where they go and at what time they go. Yes the fragile and stubborn male ego is tough nut to crack but we have to Change . Judging others must be stopped.

A girl in short skirt makes her slut in others head's. A pretty woman's promotion make other wonder . From an ill fitting dress to badly cooked dish We are ready to judge others. We-the Indian's. We say we are developing -I agree we are but only in terms of technology, our mindset and thinking is as small as a waist of small child and as narrow as the boys pants.
Our society makes the girls cry each night because of those demons who raped and humiliated them and after bearing so much they are called the criminals instead of the victims.

I am not saying only the man are responsible for these things, girls should also avoid the tantrums and should stay in limits. Yes I can see and feel the difference in our society but they are very minor.
If a girl wears sarree she is a "Behenji",if she wears skirt she is "characterless" if she is "fat" she has poor eating habits if she is "slim" she is trying to impress others . If a guys hangouts with girls the guy is cool but if the girl does the same she is a "slut" wow I must say "humse na ho payega hum dogle h dogle rhenge"
Indeed a girl's fight for survival begins in womb due to desire for sons and fear for dowry.
We are so lost that we don't live as free as humans can. We are hypocrites Yes we are
Accepted it or change it
"Wakeup and respect the RANI'S"

BELIEVE! BELIEVE! BELIEVE- it will pay for the best

         IMAGINE,BELIEVE, ACHIEVE...

 Be optimistic, when we're listening to songs, sometimes we make a play list of some of our favorite songs so that what we all want, we can hear all of them without any random song. The same thing goes for our lives, if we know what we want, we can get it all. Always try to make a list rather than playing on shuffle.
Whatever you think becomes the truth no matter where you are now, no Matter what happened in your life you can begin to consiously choose your thoughts and change your life....
  Your thoughts are the primary cause of all the stuff that happens.
       BREAK THE CYCLE. DO SOMETHING BIG....
  Feel alive,feel ecstatic....
 My advice-  Believe! Believe! Believe! -it will pay for the best
         It's in your hands you can choose to feel good now,or you can put it off for another day,week,month or longer
Most of the people are into so many games.  It's amazing the whole immersion into virtual world.The  adventure, thrill,excitement butttt........
   The best part is you can pause the game whenever you don't feel good or may start it again.
Ummm we can do the same in our real life too...whenever you feel bad, remember other things or just switch to other things and just pause the shity stuff..
It could be a flashback, a poke,a moment or anything or even the picture of your latest crush....
Whenever you feel stressed Recall the things in your good list and that's the key to your good and pleasant life.
After all life is full of joys but sorrows too.. just like a coin,if you find the tail you get the head on other side....same is with our lives
If you're sad, happiness is waiting for you on other side...you will surely get it soon
  AFTER ALL ITS A PART OF OUR LIFE
If you can dream it you can do it
      Try to make your work inspired rather than just 'Doing'
Once Martin Luther who was the spiritual leader also said "take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase. Just take the first step. And yes this is worth believing. You can't get the whole world in your hand...

   ONE'S SUCCESS LIES IN THE GOODNESS OF OTHERS
      There was once a farmer who used to grow the best quality corn. He was the only one who used to win the award for 'best corns' every year. Years passed but the no 1 position continued. Once a reporter who was curious to know the reason went to the farmer and asked about the secret. He answered "in order to make my corn good, my neighbour's corn must be good because in cross pollination pollens from their corn could settle on my corn which may make my corns quality a little poor." 
The farmer gave a very important lesson ie ONE'S SUCCESS LIES IN THE GOODNESS OF OTHERS 
Try to help out others it may boost up your confidence and performance too. 
You can either choose to hold tightly to your goodness or share it with others. But of what use is that goodness if not shared with others?
After all best evolves from greater good. Be good,do good and make others good as well