KALYUGA- FIGHT WITH OUR OWN SELF

Listening to Grandmaa's stories and incidents have always fascinated me.
Today, I was sitting next to her talking about how we are distructing everything, How we are being vicious to ourselves.
This topic started when I asked her to give me some motivation to study for my 12th board exam. She always try to trick me with their thoughts and ways of giving me new information,and extracting something new makes me happy.
She started Talking about 'Kalyuga'.
I said, How can you connect kalyuga with my exams?
she said, Let me start my girl.
When she started I was so much into it, that I forgot that I have my quiz next day and have to study for it.
She started by saying '' GIRL, You must be aware of the 4 Yugas-
'Satya yuga' , 'Treta yuga',  'Dvapara yuga' And ours' 'Kali Yuga'.
She started telling me that in satya yuga, There were two main world, 'Rakshasa's' and 'Devta's', who fought with each other and after that in  Treta, RAMAYANA was what we saw. Ram and Ravana, Saying me in a way that I understand it well, By telling A fight between Shri lanka and India You can say,
Further, She said in dvapara, Mahabharata is what we saw, Krishna, korva, Pandavas.
And now we are here.
I asked? What you wanted me to know??
She said, Let me tell You clearly, In the satya, Two worlds fought with each other.
In treta, Two countries, And in Dvapara,fight between a family took place.
Then, I was able to understand what she actually meant .
She said, We saw fights of worlds,Countries and then of families.
NOW OUR FIGHT IS WITH OURSELVES.
WITH ONE'S OWN SELF, NOW WE HAVE TO PROVE OUR OWN SELF.
THATS WHAT WE HAVE TO DO.
And, If we have to live in kalyuga then, We will need to fight with ourself and show the world, OUR POWER,OUR PRIDE, OUR STRENGTH.
So, Now, We have our Fight with our own self, Not with others.
That's how, We will progress.
That's how we will be on top.
Let's Just FIGHT WITH OURSELF.
Because, We are the one who can conquer the world.
We are the one, who will need to prove themself, To themself.
Okay, Now I have to go.

HARD WORK IS NOT A KEY TO SUCCESS.

 HARD WORK IS NOT A KEY TO SUCCESS.

I know after reading the Title of my post, you guys must be wondering if there is something wrong with me.

DONT WORRY.  I am okay.
Yes. Hard work is not the key to success.
(I AM OKAYY.)
i guess I have taken so much time, of yours while writing rubbish things. Now time to come to the point.
We all hear our parents saying us to study with interest, to complete our work with interest and so many other things.
So INTEREST. YES, INTEREST.
okay how we define interest??
I wont mind defining interest with the definition I have learned in psychology.
Okay interest is our preference for specific activities. If I am not wrong?
We all have different interests.
like, I have an interest in reading books, playing games, blogging etc.
We all are always honored with the words, GO FOR THE FEILD IN WHICH YOU HAVE INTEREST.
Do you have to do hard work for writing blogs if you are interested in it? No.
Alas! I proved all wrong.
I know you are still in doubt, if I am
crazy.
let me tell you with an example,
Have you ever seen a child aged 6 or 7 playing cricket in the ground who is so much Interested in it. oh yes! That child loves the game so much that even if he is making so much efforts. He will never say I worked so hard.
He will say, Today I loved playing cricket so much. 
Because he is enjoying the game.
And he should be asked to become the cricketer only.
Till the day he will enjoy the game, He will never need to work hard.
As for him it is an enjoyment and
Interest in it will take him to SUCEESS.
Now I hope you are getting my point.
HARD WORK IS WORKING HARD TO DO SOMETHING.
And SUCESS COMES TO THOSE WHO  ARE ABLE TO CHECK UPON THEIR POTENTIAL AND INTEREST.
STOP THINKING THAT ALL YOU ARE DOING IS WORKING HARD.
BUT START ENJOYING IT.
WHEN YOU WILL ENJOY, YOU WILL DO IT MORE AND MORE AND MORE, THATS HOW YOU WILL BE SUCCESSFULL.

CHANGING YOUR THOUGHTS CAN ACTUALLY MAKE YOU A SUCCESSFUL PERSON.
If you are still confused let me tell you again.
Have you ever seen a Rikshaw puller?? Dont you think he is working hard?? He is working the whole day to earn some wages to eat atleast two meals a day.
So where is he Lacking??
He is lacking in Interest.
Now have you seen a wild life photographer or a wedding photographer who are clicking just a picture.( I am repeating again. A picture.) earning more than 4 lakhs a month.
Rikshaw puller is doing hard work.
But that photographer is not.As he is enjoying the task. He loves clicking pictures. And thats what is making him successful.
Okay? So to be successfull all you need is INTEREST, Not HARDWORK.
( Thanks! for reading this, I know only the one's who have interest in reading will understand. This needs some maturity to be understood.)

AFTER DAWN...

When the sun gets dark

and sky gets fade,

I remember the 

promises you made.

The fear of separation turns me pale,

giving me goosebumps all over veins.

The question arises in my mind,

if my feelings for you be enshrined?

Will you ever save my life?

If I get troubled with myriad strife.

Will you ever lift me up?

if my life gets blur with dust filled up.

 I also have some promises to keep,

I will be there whenever you need.

My love for you will be an endless flood,

and you will enjoy the flood with love.

           

I am a girl! Don't harm me.

I  am a girl! If you're not proud.

 Kill yourself

Not me!!

It's been a long time since I have updated my blog. I don't know how these months ended so soon.
Exams, farewell preparations, again exams and again exam preprations with a fucked up routine.
Festivals, functions, marriages, visitors to home all screwed me up but though I have an exam tomorrow. I felt like updating my blog.
Last day, I was just going through instagram dm and I found a message from a girl named 'alex'.
She wrote "hey! I need your help. I know you're a psychology student. Please help me."
I was in dilemma. What kind of help is she asking for?
Is it regarding career? Breakup? Frnds? Or any other issue?
I texted "yes. I do study psychology. But I don't know much as this is my first year in psychology. "
She replied "I am in pain. My family sucks and I need your help."
When she wrote this I thought, she must be having some issues with her mom and dad as everyone has problems with their parents in this age. (Some normal issues, I thought)
She said "My dad hits me!! I remember since I was little girl, he was throwing me to my room and yelling at me to go to sleep even tho I wasn't sleepy. And I was scared of darkness so he was turning my light off. I was calling mum but he didn't let her to come to me.He used to hit me as well. But 2 years ago he had just beaten me up. I was scared he will kill me. Then he went to drive my sis to school.  I took knife in case he would kill me but luckily he didn't come back. "(That day)
After reading this, I was completely shocked. My eyes were also filled with tears. I was feeling like killing that asshole.
I asked her you are from?
She said, "I am from Poland."
I asked, "what about your mother? She never say something to him?
She told me "my dad never allow her to say something. He always take my mom away.
After all this, I was trying to control my own feeling.
I just messaged her. "Girl!! I love you. I can feel your pain. I know what you're going through. How difficult it is, for you to survive in a place like hell. I told her, now you're 18. You don't have to stay there for long. Just ignore. I know it's so easy to say to ignore these kind of things. But to survive in a situation like this is just like being fried in a bowl full of hot oil with stove at highest temperature.
I know she is in pain, she is completely shattered. I can feel the pain she is going through. Everyday, she cries, she she wakes up in the morning but feels afraid whether she will sleep again? Or not?
She just don't go out of her home. People laugh at her. She don't have friends anymore. She is all alone.
I just don't understand what's wrong with people nowadays?
Why the hell the give birth to child If they just can't let them sleep without any fear. Why the hell do they go for sex? If they just want fun? Why don't they abort their children or not let them born.
I don't know what's wrong with the people now? I thought India is the only place where women get molested but I don't know why I am not feeling safe now. I was not able to sleep. Whole night I was thinking about that girl. I was thinking, what should I do? How can I help her? How to take her away?
Then, she said " After sharing so many things with you. I am feeling so good."
I decided I will talk to her. I will make her feel special. I told her "Now,  we are friends. I am with you. Talk to me. Share everything with me. I will help you. You are not alone anymore.  I just can't take your pain that you are feeling physically, but mentally I will take your pain. I will help you, I promise.
I think I just can't help her. I just can't go to poland and talk to her parents.
But yes I surely can make her strong (at least mentally)
I will give her the courage to fight with that bloody coward.
Firstly, I will make her that strong. Then independent. She never goes out, because she just can't take that pain. She feels bad when people look at her with bad intentions.( As, his dad himself said, very bad things about her)
I just can't understand what's wrong with people? This incident.
This incident, actually made me feel ashamed. ( shamed!! Of being a girl!)
Shamed of giving these kind if Mens right to do anything.
I have decided I will do my best, to change these kind of things. I will tear apart the roots of these evils.
Girls!! Do something!! Fight for yourself!!
We all are with you.
(All!)
It's not about this girl. It's about millions of girls and women who are facing violence.
We need to change this. (We!!)
And we have to.

CAN I BE CALLED BEAUTIFUL?

 When someone asks me what is Beauty? I am never able to  answer this question. I always get confused asking myself which beauty are they talking about? Because I was been told beauty is a soul that lightens the most ugliest .  On other side I came to know beauty is a pretty face and a pretty body. But when I ask myself what is beauty? I feel BEAUTY is a combination of qualities that delight the senses and a spiritual soul .Beauty is love for all. Dedication,motivation,courage and smartness with a heart which is always ready to help. Once there was a man who was never rich enough to get a luxurious life. He lived in a small house but he actually had a big heart which is more beautiful than a big house. Isnt it?
He used to wake up 1 hour before going for his work to help the poor old lady collecting those pretty flowers for selling those to get some money. He used to give his piece of bread to the hungry dog who always used to sit next to him . He never asked for many things and settled up for pretty things which were way more beautiful than those gadgets,video games etc. At the end of the day, he used to get some money for working at a place. He used to see a girl sitting on the side of the road - A girl who had big dreams but without any money for good clothes to go to a school. He always used to give some money to her. After some months he saw that girl coming running to him wearing the school uniform having tears in her eyes rolling down to her mouth. she was so happy. Isnt it beautiful? People like him still exist.
Have you ever helped anyone? No we never do so? If we cant be good at  heart? Can we be called Beautiful? I think this guy was way more beautiful than those wealthy people who say bad things about those poors, who kick those poor people out of their home?
BEAUTY is, A good soul who never mean to hurt anyone, Soul which never thinks bad about others. we all are beautiful but we hide our true beauty. Let this beauty come out so that we can make this world beautiful with the most beautiful hearts and souls. Because having a pretty face doesnt makes us beautiful. Good character,helping heart,respecting personality with good manners- makes us beautiful.
SO ARE WE BEAUTIFUL?
 IF WE ARE NOT.
LETS BE BEAUTIFUL